Monday, December 12, 2011

Christmas time again!

I think I'm a real Scrooge when it comes to Christmas. Here we are less than two weeks away from Christmas and I haven't even started my Christmas shopping. Well, that is not totally true... I bought a ice scraper for my Wife's new truck. But it is a heated one with the logo of her favorite hockey team on it.

Now you might think that is a tacky-type thing to buy. But when you live in Northern Ontario, Canada, a heated ice scraper is a very thoughtful and useful gift to have; along with a shovel, a bag of salt and a bag of kitty litter or sand and traction grips to help you get out of snowbanks and stuff.

For several years my wife and I have had running debates on what are and are not acceptable Christmas gifts. My wife wants to buy a little something for everyone in the family even though they don't reciprocate. I, on the other hand, feel no guilt not spending money on someone who could not do so for me. I stopped buying my mother-out-er... in-law presents the year she presented us with a microwave potato chip maker. A lot of thought went into that puppy.

My wife wants to prowl every store looking for something. Sometimes she has to prowl several times. I prefer to go to the checkout and stock up on gift cards.My wife considers that the height of tackiness. My argument is why spend all that time picking out a gift for someone who doesn't like it and has to lie to you when you can give them something with which they can go out and get what they want? Makes sense to me.

For a few years, I thought the ideal gift was to bake and make a bunch of Christmas goodies for people. Everyone likes food and eating at Christmas time is a national sport. My wife thinks that is tacky and cheap, although I spend almost as much on supplies as I would on gifts not to mention my time, effort and sweat, which I'm sure dropped into the cookie dough, was a very thoughtful and considerate gift. I still think that is a very thoughtful gift, I would certainly appreciate a tray of goodies.

An extension of that are those gift baskets filled with specialty food items that you can only find in gift baskets at Christmas time. Everyone has to eat; right? Apparently that is another tacky gift. No, I explained to my wife, a tacky gift is to give a fruit cake to someone.

People ask me what I'd like for Christmas. I say, "Cash works for me!"


So, while I have become jaded with the crass commercialism that has become associated with the season, it is important to remember the one reason we celebrate.

That one night, a small baby, born in a stable, reached out his tiny hands and found a cross on which to bear the sins of the world.


Have a blessed Christmas!

15 comments:

  1. Ah yes, the eternal Christmas debate...do we buy or don't we. We go through the same thing every year at our house.We finally reached a partial solution by telling the kids to make a donation in our name. I'm with you, I reject the commercialism that has invaded this holy season. Peace and Blessings

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  2. Some people pick names (we used to do that) but now my siblings have agreed not to give gifts. Now that most of them have grandkids of their own, not just children, it seems difficult to buy for everyone. A tray of goodies is a thoughtful way to remember people too.

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  3. Great post! I agree--food is always welcome. I usually try to place it on a pretty tray for them to keep. That fulfills my need to present them with a gift that will last beyond the gobbling.

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  4. So that post made me laugh. I love gift cards personally, but my mother thinks it's tacky too lol. One of my dear friends gave me homemade peach preserves for Christmas one year. Even though I'm not a peach fan, I thought it was a nice gift from her heart. Food is always thoughtful!

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  5. Steve,
    Sounds so much like a typical man!

    I agree with you about the food, though. Everyone loves food . . .

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  6. I love gift cards and food; they're useful and I'm fairly sure I'll enjoy them. In fact, when Mom asks for my Christmas list each year (yes, she still wants a written list), I include gift cards to specific stores I frequent that my family doesn't. I have yet to receive one of those cards, but I keep trying...

    Great post, Steve, and the ending is the best bit. That is definitely the real reason for Christmas, and the best gift anyone could accept.

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  7. I'm for the gift cards - especially the ones to my favorite restaurant!

    Wonder what kind of gift card Jesus would like?

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  8. Amen!! seems we've gone through this same dilemma for the last several years. Nice to know we are not alone...LOL Merry Christmas!!

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  9. I'd put some real effort in something big for your mother in law. I'll bet it would really warm your wife's heart.

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  10. Steve, your last line is beautiful, a simple and precious gift: "That one night, a small baby, born in a stable, reached out his tiny hands and found a cross on which to bear the sins of the world." Wow! I love that! May His love reach down and hold you close this holy season. Merry Christmas!

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  11. Enjoyed the humor in this. The last line, though, brought it home for me.

    God bless you.

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  12. Ah now there's something I can identify with !

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  13. Gift cards work best when older people are trying to buy for the younger generation. It can be hard knowing what kids like these days--and they certainly don't mind receiving something that'll let them choose what works best for them.

    Between the rest of us, though, I always feel it's best to try and get something that'll be meaningful, even if it's nothing more than the manifested expression of an inside joke. It reinforces and celebrates the connection between you . . . and that's truly a gift from the heart.

    Great post, Steve.

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